In the second case, the child takes the blame for the situation on himself, getting used to self-deprecation. If you have read about Harvard already – you may have come to the same conclusion. This leads to the formation of low self-esteem and, consequently, to a low level of claims, maintenance of social activity, a habit to be in a situation of failure. In other words, the child would experience the joy of discovery, but received negative emotions. The child seems to be saying to himself: "Next time I will not climb and help. Will again blame.
" He folds the handle and quiet. Such behavior of parents, in turn, may regarded as very positive, for example, as a manifestation of good behavior. Endocrinologist is likely to agree. If a passive, inactive position the child earns praise, then this behavior quickly entrenched. The child may be in some Similarity of "cocoon", woven from the prohibitions and restrictions, but the inside lined with soft perinkoy of praise and acceptance. And then imagine what would happen if you sit inside a cocoon, he likes it. On the one hand, he will be Security and under full control, and that's good.
And that's really bad that a child growing up, will subconsciously avoid anything that is outside of the cocoon, in the area of risk and unpredictability. A foreign area and are just all the delights of life. It's love, acceptance, friendship, personal and professional growth, material prosperity and everything that gives meaning of human life. But to achieve all this, to disregard the cocoon and jump into the abyss of the dangers inherent in the external environment.
Lullaby Once you pronounce this word, I immediately rises before the eyes of such an image: a mother bent over me and softly melodic singing a good song. Probably almost everyone emerge or that memories at the mention of lullabies. More often, or almost always, these associations are warm, sincere, even where a heart with very schemyachie. And when we are hard or sad, and very often come to these images that even support us in difficult life situtsiyah, or can serve as an ideal relationship between mother and child. Maybe a young mother will seek to have her baby, too, there were only warm and cheerful I make mention of his childhood. You see, as a lullaby can affect the vital position of a man, his memories and how it can support in our difficult life. Not surprisingly, the lullabies used since ancient times. Our ancestors had already understood that in addition to practical benefits, such as a lull, soothe your baby, cradle and play the role of a kind, dominant, fostering spiritual closeness between mother and child.
Not so long time, scientists have proved that lullaby is to affect that baby in the future, it is better able to adapt to society and even become more intellectually developed. And the fact that using a child's lullaby normalized by its pressure, heart rhythm becomes more relaxed, ie, thus, the baby relaxes and, naturally, is better and faster go to sleep. Naps are becoming deeper, healthier. Perhaps some young mothers think that because of the lack of vocal abilities, do not scare the kid with his singing. Well, these moms are sadly mistaken.
The kid is not important, as my mother sings, beautiful or not. The main thing – do not overdo. First and foremost, we must select an appropriate quiet and good lullaby song, and feel it and just quietly singing. After the child is more important to hear their native mother's voice and to feel loved.
When choosing linens, a person first drew attention to the color of the clothes, and how he likes it, and depends on, buy it or not. When choosing a color, a man somehow anticipating the impact on their mood. Human response to a specific color is determined by its national origins and cultural backgrounds. For example, the warm colors are red, yellow and orange, they stimulate, excite and cause an active response. People from countries with warm climate all the rest prefer these colors. Purple and green grass "in the middle between warm and cold colors. Each of them can be both, depending on color. Red is the symbol of blood and fire.
The second most popular after the blue color. Sleep on the bed sheets red shades preferred by people vigorous, active and vibrant. Also, thanks to its emotionally-stimulating properties, the red color gives a linen bed rest "erotic" in nature. Brown-color male, associated with land, forests, maturity, age, warmth and comfort, the essence of masculinity. Yellow-bright, especially when combined with black. Associated with a lemon, citrus, sun. Creates a good mood and gives strength. Green, a symbol of health and freshness.
On linen with a predominantly green dominant themes of nature, plants and flowers. This creates a sense of relaxation, as if the person has visited on the nature and rested. Blue-The coolest and most attractive color. Blue color linen creates feeling of freshness and purity. In the lighter shades creates the impression of "pleasantness" of a "pleasant surprise". Black-conveys a sense of the complexity and high adaptability. Bed rest lingerie black color gives "Expensive" look. Orange, reminiscent of autumn and delicious things. Harmonious look at the children's bedding. Purple – the color of danger. In nature, many animals use this color to ward off predators. In humans, it also causes anxiety and mistrust.
It's safe to say that our women are the Americans the lead in popularity among potential foreign suitors. There is nothing strange, because in our view America – the promised land flowing with milk and honey. Truthfully whether such a perception about this country and what are the pros and cons of the possibility of marrying a U.S. citizen? Let's try to understand. I will not even try to persuade you that America is bad, and go there not worth it. I she visited the country several times. Therefore, I can say, based on personal experience.
As the Americans say: i've been there, done that, got the t-shirt (visited, he saw brought a T-shirt). America is really a great and rich country, and Americans – pleasant people. Although not without its peculiarities, which we, the ladies who are planning to marry a U.S. citizen, you should definitely know. Americans – family people. Though to marry or to marry early they are not accepted. Standard American family are: husband, wife and two and a half children. So says statistics.
Americans are very fond of the positive and always smiling. Unlike the British, they have not decided to discuss their problems. The question: how are you? nobody expects to hear from you the outpouring of the soul and all your problems. This question is purely formal, and the problem should vent his psychoanalyst. There is a very popular. Further, the Americans – the fighters for a healthy lifestyle. Smoking and drinking from them is seriously flawed.
Rapidly losing weight hanging on the wall tear-off calendar. This means that the coming New Year – a holiday that everyone loves, without exception. Do not be mistaken if I say that flickering lights on the Christmas tree creates an atmosphere of good fairy tales, and floating in the air scent of pine needles and the smell of tangerines return of adults in childhood. And this festival allows each of us feel good magician. It's so nice to give gifts, see happy smiles and shining eyes dear to you people, young and very adult – all those whose wish was fulfilled in the New Year's Eve.
But a gift that delivers the joy – it is a miracle that requires advance preparation. Therefore, should not delay its search on the back burner. Because of its choosing, to avoid reflections on "what to give than to please family, friends and colleagues" will not succeed. The task is complicated when a gift is necessary to select friends or family relatives. How to be what to choose? The same small gifts for everyone, gifts targeted individual or a large, shared a collective gift – different options are possible. Salvation in such a situation can become gift certificate. With the help of every family member can pick out exactly what would have particularly appealed to him. Beautifully packaged gift card to a favorite store of the family, whether it's clothing for all ages or solid book supermarket, enabling them to extend the holiday by selecting the desired gifts at a convenient time for them.